do you have this feeling that someone is reading our private messages  

I think that it's private since it is said to be private. Whether the admin is reading or not, it's their own decision. I think that with the number of private messages, they don't have time to spend reading on private messages. If in our discussion, they can't review all unless something is reported, how much more going over the private messages section and read them one by one. Anyhow, I believe that it's secured though most of the time, many are using it to send referral programs. That is just a part of it.

well if they are reading it I would like to say to them how are you and happy mylotting, peeps.

On any site like this, you have to be aware that Admin is at least capable of reading PMS. I'm sure they don't go in and read them unless there's some question of abuse or if a specific PM was reported, but they could go in and read anything they wanted to.

Hello, Albert. While admin could read our PMs, I'm sure they don't, unless there are exceptional circumstances. This is a respectable and well regulated site, and I'm sure our privacy is maintained on here, so don't worry about it.

My guess is there's something wrong with the private message program. When I log on to the home page, I am getting someone else's private message headlines. However, I can't read the messages. When I check my own PMS there are none. My guess is that admins can log into anything they want. Thus, I don't send private messages. I wouldn't trust the setup with anything really private.

Private message is private. No other member can read your messages. I think there is exceptions for the admins or myLot's staffs. We don't know their policy. If you think you message is very secret, I suggest you sent it by email. I think using email keep your secret save.

Hi Albert, I don't think admin is reading our PM. I think they would bother if they just want to enter with our personal lives. But I think not really, that's private right?? So, that would really remain private that even admin will respect that.