Why do some people always have negative words for everyone?  

Apart from pessimsm that looks only at the gloomy side of anything I see some people always being very critiical of everyone and everything except themselves. THis was what I was referring to.THanks for the response.

With their unnecessary criticism they spoil the situation. They are never satisfied in anything and always try to blame other. It is a very bad habit. And those people are habituate to annoy other.

Avery valid point-I have seen these people never accepting blame for nay fault and would try to be very defensive and smart.

But they are very adamant nature. And never want to accept the valid point. They are blind and never consider anything other then their own view.

The best way to handle such people is not to lose our confidence.The greater confidence we show the less they would say bad words.I ahve found thsi by experience.

It is told that when you are moving around with people who are negative in their thoughts and actions, it is very likely that you end up being one too. So, it is best to either try and make them positive or stay away from them....I hate negativity of any kind there is enough hardship in life and if you are sitting around with a long face it is definitely not going to help you or anyone else.....what do you all say?

Absolutely true Kiran.I too hate this whining and negative cribbing or not being able to say a word of appreciation.

Thanks for the great response as usual .Is it a low selfesteem or a high self esteem drannh? This is something that confounds me.I too have htought that this arises out of some inferiority complex ; but subsequent behaviour of people whom I have observed for years together has also led me to believe that this arises on account of some inbuilt superiority .

I think that only extremely LOW self-esteem would cause a person to try to pretent they are better than others. Everyone has something special to give in life and those who can look at others and only see something inferior are in my opinion too occupied with their own selves. I think only people who feel insignificant inside would go around trying to make the world view them as "important."

They have an inbuilt sense that something is lacking in their lives, but those whose lives truly are full and rich do not need to pose as superior ;-)

Excellent elaboration.I understand what you have said and I wholly agree with this[I can relate to this particular characteristic I saw in the people Iwas mentioning]

I agree totally with drannh there! Low self esteem makes us do and say stuffs that people with normal esteem won't. It's extremely sad though.

Exactly Vathsala! I waas just writing this in my comment to drannh. Either it si too much of a superiority or an inferiority complex.

But why shuld man never appreciate the beautiful world and his countless blessings?

And that was a very good responseDeepak! It si a pleasure reading your response..How right you are! DOes it give people some pleasure in belittling others? And what I cannot understand is thAT these said people would not have some extraordinary merit themselves [have seen them for a very very long time and have always wondered whether jealousy made them behave this way Deepak--jealousy can spring on account of any number of factors isn't it?
I know you are a very positive person and you always give and accept praise with good grace.And it does not cost much to give a heartfelt word of praise.

Many thanks Kala for positive feed back on my response.
I feel happy to read your comments. You always keep encouraging me and don't forget to appreciate my response. Yes, you are right that jealosy factor could also make some people think negative, actually some negative traits are inter-related like jealousy, suspicion, distrust and envy and we come across such people on many occasions occasions in our life, who always appear dissatisfied with their lives and want to belittle others. They are in more pain to see happiness of others then their own sorrows.
Have a nice day!
Deepak

They are in more pain to see happiness of others then their own sorrows....well put deepak, thats exactly what it is.But come to think of it we start our life with negative feelings.A child encounters 'No' for eveything from its mother and others.Dont touch that,dont go there, dont do that, dont sit there...or else it is commanded to do something, do this now or eat it now...You know we fill negativity in life by our actions, so as we grow up we are scared of doing anything at all lest we fail....But , in some with circumstances and by coming across with different kinds of people this trait might become less but the opposite might be the case with others...

Kiran!
It is true to a great extent that we inherit negative thoughts and
negative thoughts from our parents/siblings/other family members,
and those thoughts get settled in our sub-conscious brain and
when we grow up, we react/act accordingly.
Deepak
PS - Sorry for the delayed comments.

True .There may be any nuber of reasons behind their behaviour.But there is no MR OR ms Perfect in this world.IT wuld be better if everyone realises this but well, what each does is to one's own.We can only keep away.

oF COURSE I agree with your last statement.Don't we know when we see false praise?Similarly I cannot stand these born critics too - armchair critics rather.
And for the 'satire' part I do not agree especially if it becoems an invective.

Well .True that it takes all sorts of people to make the owrld.But not all people are like that.

Don't I know this? I have seen this for a very long time with som e people and was wondering about this trait.Well you say it is on account of pessimism.The first response also said the same thing though there have been oter aspects discussed.
We natutally have to accept them Rose.THere is no second opinion about that and personally this does not bother me ;it would only make the concerned person miserable and each to one's own.I was only wondering about the reason or some complex behind this.

Perhaps, they are hardly appreciated that's why they behave that way. Bitter,pessimist and jealous. They want to be noticed so they find other person's flaws.By doing this, they think could draw people's attention to them.

Jealousy is very much a part of this.And it is sad and to their own misery.

The main reason could be that these kind of people probably had very critical
parents.Such people received little praise but were quite used to criticism either of themselves or others.